Adolescent Girls Mentoring

Adolescent mentoring provides a 12-week, one-to-one mentoring programme for adolescent girls aged 11 to 16 that have experienced or witnessed domestic abuse. Through talking and activities, our mentoring programme facilitates better understanding of emotions, whilst improving confidence and self-esteem. Young girls will have the space to have their voice heard and listened to be a consistent and trusted professional.

In weekly sessions, a dedicated female support worker will support the young person to better understand their past experiences and their impact, how to recognise healthy and unhealthy relationships, strategies for staying safe and knowing how to access support.

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Who is Adolescent Girls Mentoring for? 

Adolescent Girls Mentoring is for young women aged 11-16, who live in Canterbury, Ashford and Folkestone & Hythe, and have experienced, witnessed or have trauma linked to domestic abuse. It can be related to your own intimate relationships where you may have experienced or familial relationships.

Your experiences and trauma are individual to you, and we support you based on the personalised support that you need.

When and where is Adolescent Girls Mentoring run? 

Our Adolescent Girls Mentoring programme is 12-weeks of support, made up of weekly sessions lasting about an hour depending on your needs.

We adopt a flexible approach with our one-to-one sessions, and can offer support in a number of different ways including in-person at school, college, our offices or a community centre. We can also do sessions over WhatsApp, on the phone or over Facetime.

Where possible, we try to meet you where you are. We recognise that coming out of school and travelling to sessions can be a big disruption in yours and your parent’s day. By being flexible with our approach, we aim to minimise disruption to your day as much as possible.

We have strong relationships with many schools, sixth forms and colleges across Canterbury, Ashford and Folkestone & Hythe, working closely with their safeguarding teams to create a safe and secure place for one-to-one sessions.

What will I gain from Mentoring? 

Our Adolescent Girls Mentoring aims to help you move past your experiences, its impact to develop and thrive, and to prepare for future relationships. It does this through:

  • Giving space and permission for you to talk about any challenges and the impact of those experiences – breaking down the stigma and secrecy of domestic abuse.
  • Offering the context and language to your experiences of domestic abuse, through psychoeducational support around healthy relationships, trauma and emotional regulations.
  • Building a trusted relationship with a professional adult and identifying a support network to share your thoughts and feelings with.
  • Discussing staying safe online in a world of social media and online dating, as well as experiencing coercive control and pressure online.
  • Recognising healthy and unhealthy behaviours in current and future relationships current and future relationships for yourself and others, and knowing where to turn for support.
  • Opening up the conversation about the importance of consent, in and out of relationships.
  • Show you that your have a choice, and that your voice is heard.

Frequently Asked Questions

Nope! Mentoring is made up of weekly sessions, and these can be in-person, or they can a conversation over WhatsApp, a phone call or a video call over Facetime. Your 12-weeks of support can also be a mixture of in-person and online chats depending on your availability, plans and how comfortable you are with your mentor.

If you fit the following criteria, you can be referred into Adolescent Girls Mentoring by a professional, parent or legal guardian.

  • Are aged 11-16
  • Have experienced, witnessed or are living with the impact of domestic abuse.
  • Live in Canterbury, Ashford or Folkestone & Hythe
  • Have no more than 50/50 contact with the non-safe parent
  • Your legal guardian/safe parent is invested in the support

Once referred into our Adolescent Girls Mentoring programme, you will be placed onto a waiting list. Our Children & Young Person Manager will call your safe parent, or legal guardian to discuss the information shared in the referral, what is involved with the mentoring programme and check that the support is suitable for the family. If suitable, you will be allocated a key worker who will be in touch.

We can accept referrals where contact is no more than 50/50 contact with the non-safe parent. However, the referral and level of risk will be discussed with the Children & Young Person Manager who will assess whether this support is suitable for the young person.

Rising Sun has a Safeguarding Policy in place for working with children and young people which each of our facilitators follows. Our highly-trained facilitators are experienced at recognising, recording and reporting safeguarding concerns through the appropriate channels. If a safeguarding concern should arise, a member of staff will inform the school/college safeguarding team, parent and a Rising Sun designated safeguarding lead immediately.